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How to make mealtimes more pleasant for the elderly; a guide for caregivers.

I used to get so much pleasure from cooking fancy meals for a crowd. Now it’s an effort to even sit and eat a sandwich.” Lily S, age 89.

Mealtimes are about so much more than nutrition. Favorite foods, ethnic or familial culinary traditions, dining-table conversations with loved ones, trips to restaurants, even TV dinners- eating is an experience that can bring strength, comfort and happiness.

Yet when people get older, often living far away from loved ones, appetites can shrink, eating becomes more difficult, and all too often the joy leaves the table. 

Caregivers make sure that potentially vulnerable older adults are given regular, nutritious meals to maximize their physical health. The 6 practical tips below will help caregivers  provide a more comfortable and enjoyable mealtime experience for the elderly.

Creating a Comfortable Environment:

Maintaining a comfortable environment is crucial for enjoyable mealtimes. 

  • Adaptable Seating: Invest in comfortable, supportive chairs to promote proper posture during meals.
  • Appropriate Lighting: Ensure adequate lighting to minimize visual challenges and help make food look more appealing 
  • Temperature Control: Maintain a comfortable room temperature, as extreme temperatures can affect appetite.

Understanding Dietary Preferences and Restrictions:

Knowing the dietary needs and preferences of an elderly charge is essential for providing nourishing and appetizing meals:

  • Consult with Healthcare Professionals: Make sure dietary restrictions or specific nutritional needs are fully understood.
  • Ensure a balanced and healthy diet: Offer a diverse range of nutritious and tasty foods 
  • Modify food textures: Take challenges related to chewing or swallowing into account.

Promoting Independence:

Fostering a sense of independence during mealtimes is empowering, encourages eating, and makes the experience more enjoyable.

  • Adaptive Utensils: utensils designed for easy gripping and handling help people with physical challenges eat independently.
  • Adaptive bibs: Stylish, water-proof bibs with a pocket to collect fallen food can serve as an important adult mealtime aid. They encourage people with physical challenges to eat independently without fear of making their clothes dirty.  
  •  Sleeveless adult bibs are especially comfortable as they don’t need to worry about lifting their arms to put on the bib. 




Effective Communication:

Warm and clear communication is essential for positive mealtimes for all.

  • Active Listening: Both verbal and non-verbal cues communicate likes, dislikes, and comfort levels.
  • Encourage Conversation: Chat during meals creates a social and enjoyable atmosphere.
  • Respectful Communication: Be patient to allow ample time for  people to express themselves and make choices.

Timing and Consistency:

Establishing a consistent mealtime routine contributes to a sense of security and predictability:

  • Regular Meal Schedule: A regular schedule for meals creates a routine.
  • Pre-Meal Preparation: Putting everything in its place before the meal reduces stress and anxiety
  • Post-Meal Activities: Light activities or a short walk post-meal encourages digestion.

Monitoring Hydration:

Proper hydration is vital for overall health, and caregivers can play a key role in ensuring an adequate intake:

  • Accessible Water: Keep water within easy reach throughout the day.
  • Hydration Reminders: Set gentle reminders to encourage regular sips of water.
  • Offer Hydrating Foods: Include foods with high water content, such as fruits and soups.


Mealtimes are not just about fueling the body but also about creating moments of connection and joy, and a caregiver’s role is invaluable. 

Explore the Apri adult bib collection and see what a difference our stylish adult mealtime aids can make.

Together, let's make mealtimes a delightful and nourishing experience for our elderly loved ones.

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